How to protect your future in Nepal?

Question: what will you do to protect your future in Nepal?

My answer: Be selfish. It is in your very selfish interest to protect your future in Nepal.

नेपालीमा पनि पढ्नुहोला

Here is a story to make my case. Let’s say, you make it big!  You become rich enough to grab a “bright” future for your family. You own a nice house in Kathmandu, with guards, servants and enough money in the bank after many hard, years of honest work. Your relatives are filled with envy!

Let’s say, you have a beautiful, small happy family, you, your partner and your two cute little children. Everyday you drive through tons of problems in Kathmandu. No one seems to be doing much about it. You get angry, frustrated, even depressed. In the end, the only words that come out of you are “Yestai ho”.(यस्तै हो)

So you focus on where you feel you can make a difference which is to take care of your own family. You forget about the rest of Kathmandu. As you do this, the Bagmati river which flows through Kathmandu, pretty much remains the same, extremely toxic. You convince yourself, repairing her is beyond your job. You start the blame-game. It is the damned government’s job or some INGO’s or some environmentalist’s job.

Coming back to your family; you keep raising your children in the best way possible. You put them in expensive Montessori schools, equip them with the latest ipad, iPhone, send them to excellent summer camps to broaden their horizons. You convince yourself that one day, when they grow up they will certainly help their country. This is why you “mind your own business for now”.

So now, let’s say because of the highly toxic Bagmati (or the pollution in Kathmandu or hundreds of other health disasters waiting to loom here), a resistant form of mutated bronchitis or tuberculosis creeps its way through. It is lethal. Lets say “unluckily” your daughter gets (could be from her friends in school or through water or from someone, somewhere in this big city?) You rush her to a nearby hospital; put her in a deluxe first class cabin with a private personal doctor to treat her 24 /7. The doctor consults with the best practitioners around the world. Money is never a problem, but it sure shows its limits when the doctor finally admits, “your daughter cannot be treated here because the disease is new, highly contagious so she has to be taken abroad immediately to a better facility”.

You charter a plane to Delhi (you sure can afford it). You try to leave for Delhi immediately but are stopped because your daughter needs to be quarantined as per their state policy. You plead with them; you lie, and even threaten them. You call directly the high level politicians of Nepal to find a way out. You manage to pressure them. At last you have permission to proceed. You fly out to save your girl (your investment, your future). But by then, it has become too late. The disease moved too fast. Too much time had already been lost. Your little girl is no more.

  • So now the blame game starts inside you. Who to blame for this loss of your child, your future, your investment, your hope?
  • Do you blame the doctors and the hospitals for not being able to save her? or her friends for transferring this disease ?
  • their irresponsible parents or the school perhaps?
  • or the toxic Bagmati River? the people who were supposed to clean it?
  • or the government for being incompetent?
  • Would you even go on to blame your neighbors (countries) for their apparent bias against Nepalis (for not letting your daughter get medical access in time)?
  • Or go one step further and blame Nepal itself for this mess? “Sati le saraape ko desh.
  • Or do you just blame yourself?

Would blaming anyone bring your daughter back? Certainly not. But if you could see into your past, where would you change things so that your daughter would be alive today? Think hard for a minute before reading further.

You would have tried to prevent this from ever happening, right? You would have never let these problems get this big. You would acted actively to control these social, environmental problems when they were small. After all it is for your own sake. In essence, It is in our own selfish interest to act now to solve these collective problems of the future. If we don’t, it will haunt my future, your future and our children’s future. So how about making this super-selfish pledge today!

To protect my family, I will look for and support or even build any citizen movement to clean up Bagmati.

To protect my future, I will not remain silent as incompetent rulers destroy my future.

To protect my lifestyle, I will be proactive in my neighborhood, city and country.

People who helped with this, Vidhan Rana and Prasanna Dhungel. Thank you.

was also published in myrepublica daily, April 13, 2011

5 thoughts on “How to protect your future in Nepal?

  1. Only a single person cannot eradicate this hazy situation, a there must
    be a global awareness but being a selfish only a solo part will be
    improved and other remains empty as usual so we people must get
    encouraged and engaged and listen the word of upcoming disaster to us
    and our upcoming kids.

    “Not by the show-up but by internally as is for mine”

  2. Elaborate iteration of the common action problem of economics. Solution: the state recognises the externalities and corrects market failure. So, the formation of the Nepalese state ought to be the priority.
    It is never within the interests of the individual to clean the Bagmati. Stop kidding yourself. Go on twitter and shit hashtags instead.

  3. Ram, you should definately share any links of Nepalis doing good work everyrnday that we may not know about. Lets share the good people’s stories !rnThanks for your comments !

  4. I agree absolutely with your concerns. But the problems we have, the volume is overwhelming (not that i am not trying) immense. They are just everywhere. nLike a 3 year old trying to learn a piano note – It is really complex at the start, and even look impossible. But when she learns a bit of it, she gets encouraged more. And she gets better. And that encourages her more to even go further. A perfect virtuous circle. nnI have seen a lot of really caring and really great Nepalis who try to bring about a change every day. And its not that hard to seen how quickly and easily we get frustrated and demotivated with the chances of our effort being materialized. They worry that all their efforts would go for vain. nnSo I just wish all my ever working nepalis to realize that glimmer of hope. To motivate them. To encourage them to go all the way. To make a change, a generation should sacrifice. And I am up for it. nnKeep up the good work Uj. Keep motivating us. Keep the faith.

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